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RELATIONSHIP 101

Man is a social animal!
We've all heard this slogan time and again (I'm not an animal oo 😁). The truth is a lot of us teenagers don't understand the fundamentals of relationships and that's why I welcome you to this course. 
Relationship is a state of being connected. Relationships can involve 2 persons or even more. The quality of our relationships depend on our relationshipical IQ. Now, when I talk about relationship, most of you think it's the romantic type but relationship isn't only romantic. It could be platonic. The issue is that most of us get into relationships based on what we stand to gain. I'm not talking of only romantic but also platonic relationships. We enter the relationship because we want money💰💰, Pleasure e.t.c. We enter relationships for the wrong reason. As teenagers, we are continually basing our relationships on infactuation. Most teenagers just want sex while majority want to have boyfriend or girlfriend. Any relationship that wants to survive on infactuation will collapse. God warns us in his word to restrain from all ungodly relationships

1 Thessalonians 4:3(KJV)
"For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:"

According to this passage, abstaining from fornication is the will of God. Any relationship that you enter must be free of fornication. Some will ask "What if I will marry her?". Well, if you will marry her, then wait till you marry!. Remember that God's will is for us to abstain from fornication. Even if you are dating someone, it should be free from fornication. Once again I welcome you to this wonderful course. I hope you enjoy it. There's more to come on this topic. This....Is..Just..The... Beginning 💯

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